Facing the Shadow

Facing the Shadow Author Patrick Carnes
ISBN-10 0985063378
Year 2015-03-31
Pages 300
Language en
Publisher
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The groundbreaking book introducing Dr. Patrick Carnes' thirty-task model for treating sexual addiction is now UPDATED and REVISED.

Facing Addiction

Facing Addiction Author Patrick Carnes
ISBN-10 0982650566
Year 2011
Pages 296
Language en
Publisher
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Applies Dr. Patrick Carnes' research-based thirty-task model to treating addiction to alcohol and drugs for a lasting long-term recovery.

Mending a Shattered Heart

Mending a Shattered Heart Author Stefanie Carnes
ISBN-10 9780983271352
Year 2012-07-10
Pages 288
Language en
Publisher eBookIt.com
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When your partner betrays, what are the first steps to picking up the pieces of your shattered heart? Many unsuspecting people wake up every day to discover their loved one, the one person whom they are supposed to trust completely, has been living a life of lies and deceit because they suffer from a disease-sex addiction. This is a disease shrouded in secrecy and shame. This is your go-to-guide for what to do when you discover your partner is a sex addict. Each chapter is based on frequently asked questions by partners such as: Should I Stay or Should I Go? Is This Going to Get Better? How Do I Set Boundaries and Keep Myself Safe? and What Should I Tell the Kids?

Out of the Doghouse

Out of the Doghouse Author Robert Weiss
ISBN-10 9780757319228
Year 2017-01-03
Pages 216
Language en
Publisher Health Communications, Inc.
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Typically, men are good at creating rifts in relationships but terrible at mending them, especially after they've repeatedly betrayed their partner through sexual infidelity. For the most part, cheating men are both intimacy-challenged and empathy-challenged, and, as such, they lack the skills needed to overcome the damage wrought by their infidelity. Robert Weiss has spent over twenty years in the treatment of sex and intimacy issues, helping both cheating men and their betrayed spouses. In Out of the Doghouse he shares his expertise, illuminating the ways in which men can move beyond their usual feeble efforts to smooth things over. Sure, saying "I'm sorry" and trying to "buy forgiveness" with flowers and jewelry may temporarily calm the stormy seas, but these actions do nothing to re-establish trust, which is what a distraught woman needs if she hopes to feel better about her relationship over the long-term. The simple truth is men and women are very different when it comes to relationships. While men are able to compartmentalize things like sexual infidelity, women typically view cheating as an affront to their entire relationship. They think: "If he is lying to me about sex, he's probably lying to me about everything." For betrayed women, trust just flat-out disintegrates. And without proper guidance, men have little hope of restoring it. Weiss provides exactly the needed guidance in Out of the Doghouse, helping men move past the usual roadblocks in ways that will not only save a damaged relationship, but make it better than ever.

Facing Heartbreak

Facing Heartbreak Author Stefanie Carnes
ISBN-10 098327133X
Year 2012-10-16
Pages 309
Language en
Publisher
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The first workbook to help partners of sex addicts cope with discovering their loved one has compulsive sexual behaviors.

Open Hearts

Open Hearts Author Patrick Carnes
ISBN-10 1929866003
Year 1999-01-01
Pages 230
Language en
Publisher
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Hopeful and helpful guidance on transforming one's most intimate bonds

Cruise Control

Cruise Control Author Robert Weiss, MSW
ISBN-10 9780985063344
Year 2013-02-21
Pages 249
Language en
Publisher eBookIt.com
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Cruise Control is the premiere book on the growing problem of sex addiction in gay men. This second edition explores how technology has impacted the instant ability to "meet up" and the implications of being in recovery in a committed relationship. Accessible resource for achieving sex addiction recovery including a "30 day test" and a dating plan.

Conquering Shame and Codependency

Conquering Shame and Codependency Author Darlene Lancer
ISBN-10 9781616495336
Year 2014-05-16
Pages 227
Language en
Publisher Hazelden Publishing
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A nationally recognized author and codependency expert examines the roots of shame and its connection with codependent relationships. Learn how to heal from their destructive hold by implementing eight steps that will empower the real you, and lead to healthier relationships. Shame: the torment you feel when you’re exposed, humiliated, or rejected; the feeling of not being good enough. It’s a deeply painful and universal emotion, yet is not frequently discussed. For some, shame lurks in the unconscious, undermining self-esteem, destroying confidence, and leading to codependency. These codependent relationships—where we overlook our own needs and desires as we try to care for, protect, or please another—often cover up abuse, addiction, or other harmful behaviors. Shame and codependency feed off one another, making us feel stuck, never able to let go, move on, and become the true self we were meant to be. In Conquering Shame and Codependency, Darlene Lancer sheds new light on shame: how codependents’ feelings and beliefs about shame affect their identity, their behavior, and how shame can corrode relationships, destroying trust and love. She then provides eight steps to heal from shame, learn to love yourself, and develop healthy relationships.

Sexual Anorexia

Sexual Anorexia Author Patrick Carnes
ISBN-10 1592857647
Year 2009-08-07
Pages 420
Language en
Publisher Hazelden Publishing
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A first-time examination of sexual anorexia, an extreme fear of sexual intimacy and obsessive avoidance of sex, by the acknowledged leader in the treatment of compulsive sexual behavior and recovery. Author Dr. Patrick Carnes begins by defining sexual anorexia and demonstrating how it and its parallel disorder, sexual addiction and compulsivity, often arise from a background of childhood sexual trauma, neglect, and other forms of abuse, Carnes explores the numerous dimensions of sexual health, examining key issues which must be addressed and resolved for recovery to proceed. Util.

Deceived

Deceived Author Claudia Black
ISBN-10 9781592858347
Year 2009-07-30
Pages 272
Language en
Publisher Simon and Schuster
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Renowned lecturer, author, and trainer Claudia Black offers a comprehensive guide to healing and recovery for women whose partners are acting out sexually. Pornography, cybersex, prostitutes, voyeurism, multiple affairs. No matter their "drug" of choice, men who act out sexually leave their partners reeling in fear, rage, incredible shame, and isolation.But there is hope.In Deceived, bestselling author Claudia Black offers women in relationships plagued by sexual betrayal the care and guidance to create a new path of clarity, direction, and confidence. Black uses stories of real women who have been through a wide variety of experiences to help readers develop the understanding and skills to:confront their partnersheighten their personal security by setting nonnegotiable boundariesavoid preoccupation with their partners' problemspractice forgivenesslet go of the uncontrollabletalk to their childrenmake positive changes derived from esteem and integrityDeceived teaches women how to proactively emerge from emotional isolation, shed secrets and shame, and discover their power to incite positive change in their relationships

A Couple s Guide to Sexual Addiction

A Couple s Guide to Sexual Addiction Author Paldrom Collins
ISBN-10 9781440526978
Year 2011-11-18
Pages 256
Language en
Publisher Simon and Schuster
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Like other psychiatric disorders, sexual addiction is a condition that affects peoples' relationships with others as much as it affects their own mental state. Individuals suffering from sexual addiction typically pursue sex through any means possible and often engage in risky forms of sexual activity such as exhibitionism, promiscuous sex with multiple partners, online sex, etc. It's easy to see how a couple's relationship may be challenged by the manifestations and reality of a disorder like this one. A Couple's Guide to Sexual Addiction discusses common relationship issues within the context of sexual addiction and provides the reader with exercises, information, and advice on the following topics: Trust Communication Healthy sexuality & sexual behaviors Family By understanding the reality of sexual addiction and what it means for a relationship, couples will be able to better relate to each other and plan for a successful future.

Intimate Treason

Intimate Treason Author Claudia Black
ISBN-10 9781937612016
Year 2012-09-18
Pages 200
Language en
Publisher Central Recovery Press, LLC
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Partners affected by sex addiction learn to develop healthy boundaries and make positive changes for themselves and their partners.